Diana Dettling Buckley will be reading her essay entitled "The Blind Date" on Wednesday, February 29th at 7pm at the Friendswood Public Library. Other essayists include Barbara Carle, Kay Cox, and Nanci Engle.
Summer Holidays (Part One)
With seven kids Mom and Dad never had a chance to take us on
any vacations. When Dad bought the used tent trailer in 1965, things changed.
We were ecstatic! For the next four summers, we vacationed in the province of
British Columbia, Canada. The summer of 1969 proved most memorable for all of
us.
On July 20th, Dad roused us out of bed to watch Commander
Neil Armstrong take "one small step for man, one giant leap for
mankind".
Still dreaming of moonwalks, we piled into the car. Perry,
the youngest and spoiled one, sat in front between Dad and Mom. Crowded in
the back seat were Andy (14), Freddie (13), Ada and myself. Crowded meant
careful not to touch each other's precious space. Ada was my Mom's 21 year old niece
from Amsterdam. And SHE was Hollywood gorgeous. Platinum blonde, 5' 7",
and one hundred and fifteen pounds. By profession, Ada was a hairdresser
and worked in the salon at
Eaton's Department Store in downtown Edmonton, Alberta. She
lived with us for 2 years, and then married a native American. Now Dad was a
confident, safe driver. Mom often stated that she was too, and constantly
provided proof by pumping the imaginary brakes and grabbing the dashboard while
uttering "slow down, not so fast, too close, don't pass that truck"!
To make the drive seem shorter, we occupied our time by
counting cows, barns, fence posts, power poles, whatever. The ultimate prize
was a thick frosty milkshake to the first person that spotted a bear. Through
the majestic Canadian Rockies and on to the gently rolling hills of Penticton,
we finally arrived at the Skaha Tent and Trailer Campsite located across the
road from Skaha Beach. It wasn't too long before Ada and I found some friends
which included both sexes. We arranged to meet with them on the beach after
supper.
One of the boys, Rodney, brought a guitar. We built a small
fire and sat on the cool sand listening to him strum and sing great folk
songs by Woody Guthrie, The Kingston Trio, and Peter, Paul, and Mary. Rodney
and Ada instantly fell in love. As it turned out, Rodney's buddy, Michael, was
quite smitten with me. Ada picked up on this and spoke in Dutch telling me to
pretend I was also fresh from the land of windmills. I had no interest in him,
but I couldn't desert Ada, so I ended up playing mute for the entire evening. I
think this poor little Dutch girl routine only served to entice my new paramour.
But I can tell you if looks could kill, I would be long dead, because the very
next day, Rodney and Michael came to visit us at the campsite. I didn't see
them at first, so when Andy and Freddie started horsing around, I told them to
smarten up. My paramour heard me as clear as a bell--in English. His face
showed, above all, shock. He executed a quick 180 degree turn and walked
swiftly away. I never saw him again.
A few nights later, close to dawn, I woke up for no apparent
reason. Everyone was still asleep. I half rose up on my elbow and peered out
towards the screened tent door. On the opposite bed, close to the foot end, sat
a woman dressed in a pale white gown. My eyes opened wider as I sucked in the
dead quiet air. Abruptly, she took her gaze away from my parents and stared
directly at me. Without making a sound, I cowered under the blankets until
morning.
Over breakfast I told everyone about my ghostly vision. She
was slender with long black hair and had porcelain skin. She also
possessed the bluest eyes, like the colour of a late summer afternoon sky. Dad
stopped eating and said "that sounds like my mother"! Later in the
day, Dad was admitted in the hospital with a serious intestinal infection. In
all honesty, I think my vision was a harbinger of what was to come in the Fall
of 1969.
Diana Dettling Buckley
Dearest Diana, you are such a talented writer and we are so very proud that we are family!
ReplyDeleteEven tough we live in -as you stated 'the windmill country'- we love you and the family in Canada very much.
I will print this story for Ada (who came back to Holland after a while) and give to her. She will be so surprised and will love to read it back again. xxx Francis, tante Henny and Rob